Do You Have Problems Dating Women

If you are looking for tips on how to date women then this post hopefully will give you a few courses of action. When you are successful with women on a first date, they will will want to date you again, no matter what your financial position is or how you look. There is one key success factor, and that is charm, charm, charm.  Although there is such a thing as too gushy, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few things you should not do such as:
1) Do not kowtow to her excessively such as
a. Making her feel so important that you look needy. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, do it jokingly. You will achieve the complement without appearing to be subservient.
b. Asking her to compare you other men she has known – on a first date you will look like less because of the lack of history Do not push this rhetorical button; it is too soon to get into this depth of conversation.
c. Ceding control of the date. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of what she would like, then give her a list of two, or at most three choices of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of them, then you have have not done sufficient research as to what her needs are. You have screwed up, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can ask for ideas, but on a first date you should appear to be in control, well planned, but flexible).
2) The next common mistake is trying to impress her too much. Do not crow and breast beat, and do not say how much money you make.  Just be a considerate partner, listen to her, and pay the tab.  Date one is female centric, it is not about you. If she asks questions, then answer them in something more than one word answers, but no answer should take longer than one minute, or else you are in the danger zone of coming across in a negative light.
3) Do not do not make her out to be a princess. That advice is more important if the woman is very pretty.  Beautiful women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are hanging out with bums?  That is because hoods treat them normally and they feel like they are being appreciated for what they are. In many cases the hoods are abusive, but they like that because it is just different, and different is special to them. Nothing is more tiring to beautiful women as getting hit on – they have heard it all before.  The better thing to do is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they are doing, where they work, etc.
4) Being exclusive too soon in a relationship.  both of you should be initially playing the field. If you seem too willing to commit exclusively, you will seem needy and diminished in their eyes.  No woman wants to be dating a needy loser. You have to come across as successful in relationships, and therefore desirable in her eyes.

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