Beach Date

Everyone likes to go to the beach. It’s fun and social, and there’s nothing but good vibes everywhere you look. People are playing with their kids, and playing Frisbee, relaxing and talking. The beach becomes an even better place to be if you have the new object of your desires there with you. If you and your date decide on a beach venue, there are some simple preparations that will ensure that the trip is a success and remains a favorite place from then on

First off, there are five things you MUST bring to the beach on your date. If you forget any for these, your day will be off to a lousy start that can only get worse. You need to bring a big blanket, sunscreen, water, flip-flops, and towels. The sand will be so hot under the sun, and the sun will burn you so bad without sun screen that your date will be over in the first 30 minutes or faster. With the basics now covered, we can discuss other details to consider.

Pros to the Beach Date

One of the coolest things about the beach is that you can check out your babe in bathing suit. Not much can be hidden behind one of those. On top of that, it hardly costs anything other than the price of gas. Of course it you have wrap around dark sunglasses, you can discretely check out all the other hot bodies as well.

Another great thing about the beach date is swimming and frolicking with your date. It is sometimes a bit difficult getting in those first few intimate touches, but losing your balance and grabbing each other for support while playing in the water is a great ice breaker in that area. Similarly, there is something about swimming together in deeper water and taking a water treading break that requires being close and personal. Speaking of, applying her sunscreen is another way to establish instant physical intimacy.

The beach date is also great because you can stay and watch the sunset and have a picnic supper with her. This is very romantic, and if you have played your cards right all day, will lead to much more intimacy.

Cons to the Beach Date

The hardest thing to anticipate when you’re going to the beach date are the weather variables. Check the forecast before you leave so that you have an idea of what might be coming. One thing about the beach is that it is usually a bit cooler during the day because of on shore breezes, and a bit cooler at night because of off shore breezes. It never hurts to take a sweater or sweat shirt, and even a pair of jeans.

You should also check any pollution warnings for the beaches in your area, and in some parts of the country, you would need to verify if there is any increased risk of jellyfish stings.

Nothing is as big a pain as a loud, obnoxious group of people close by. You know the type, rude, foul mouthed, and just show offs. Often pushing their weight around because they need to feel big for some reason. If you run into something like that, then just move up the beach a way to where it is quieter and more private. Keep mobile!

Then you have the body builder types that parade around the beach showing off their bodies. These guys always ruin it for more average guys with long hair, or a small belly. When these guys walk by, distract her by pointing out a bird in the distance. That should work the first few times.

If things go really well, she might want to stay on the beach after everyone else has left and get frisky. Not a good idea, despite what Hollywood tells you. Here’s why. Sex on the beach always involves sand. It’s coarse, and not what you want when you’re getting “slippery”. Plus, it’s not private, and gets cold fast once the sun goes down. Bring her home to bed – trust me!

Hope this helps, and remember the sunscreen!

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