With the breakneck pace of change in the modern electronic age, you pretty much have to adapt your ways of doing things almost monthly. Dating in the electronic age is no exception. Prior to the new millennium, a parent could actually give actionable advice to their kids as to how to go about wooing and winning a desired love interest. With the preponderance of electronic connection options now available to everyone, you are usually just a thought away from someone. So where in previous decades you could go all day without talking to your main squeeze, no-a-days it is pretty much expected that you connect at least a couple of times each day. So to help you out, I have included a few choice tidbits of information that you may be able to glean some tips from.
Emailing Her at Her Workplace
It’s pretty commonplace for most people to have a computer at their job these days. This means you can email your special someone while you have a break, or during your lunch. Despite the temptation to remind her about the noises she made the night before during your adult times, or send her a picture of a train going into a tunnel with the caption “thinking of you”, keep anything you send to her workplace professional. You never know which of her superiors are reading her work correspondence, and you don’t want to get her in trouble. And keep it to a minimum – short, sweet and nothing embarrassing to her if someone else reads it. Many people think that email is as private as snail mail. It is not. It is actually the property of whoever runs the computers that the email is sitting on. In this case, the employer. They are free to read it, and if they find anything in it that they do not like, they can fire her. Many employees have found this out the hard way!
Male Acquaintances of Hers Posting On Her Facebook Account
Do not get jealous or upset about what someone is putting on her wall. She is not the one who did it. You will know more from her actions as to what the real situation is. If they do not have a long standing fraternal relationship partly based on lewd joking and she has any sort of class, she will likely delete the post, and if it persists will un-friend the dud. If you ever see the dude in public, you can always have a discussion as to why he thinks it is appropriate to treat her like a whore in front of her other friends on Facebook. If he is really a friend, he will stop.
Turn Down The Answering Machine
People call at the most inconvenient times. If you are with your girlfriend in your apartment and your ex calls looking to get back together it could prove embarrassing. To avoid this type of drama in your life, it is just a lot safer to leave the machine off and check messages when you are alone.
Get Up With Her, Then Go Back to Sleep
Many women are very career oriented now. A lot of women have to get up really early to get to work and start. If she is overnighting at your place, get up with her at whatever ungodly hour that she has to and keep her company. While she is showering, fix her up a light breakfast of toast and either tea or coffee, depending on her tastes. She’ll be so happy that you didn’t just lie in bed while she got up that you will likely get some sugar later that night. Besides, you can go back to sleep after she has gone and grab a few more winks anyway, so it is no biggie from your perspective. Trust me on this one.
Plug All Anniversaries, Etc. Into Your Doodad
Use your fancy smart phone to do more than just call, text or surf. They all have some sort of calendar/reminder function, so use it to your advantage. If you are like most guys, you are not using it at all, or just consider it a nuisance. But if you think about it, when used properly, it can keep you from getting into unexpected jams. Plug in her birthday, anniversary, valentines, etc. Program it to remind you a week before each to get her a present or make a reservation at her favorite restaurant. You will be rewarded with adult fun.
Keep Your Bedding Clean
Some guys just do not get it. It is okay to sleep in your own drool stains. It is not cool to expect your girlfriend to do the same! Clean it up if you want her to actually lie down in your bed to have sex with you.
Shop With Her – At Your Local Sex Store
There is nothing worse than breaking out a funky sex toy or costume that you bought for your new girlfriend; only to find out she doesn’t like it, or it doesn’t fit. The reason is that if the merchandise is unacceptable to her, you cannot return it. Might as well have just flushed the money down the toilet! There are a couple of approaches. The first is to get her wasted so she will agree to almost any thing. The second is to just go in to look around so you can see what all the "sex perverts" are in to. When you get her in there, you can joke about some of the more extreme stuff, but it will be easy to talk her into trying some of the cuter stuff like sexy outfits, whipped cream, or edible panties for your initial purchases. Once she is more into it, she will get more adventurous.
Have fun out there!
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