The Sleepover Kit

At some point when dating a woman, there comes a time when you will be sleeping over. Even if sleeping over is an irregular affair, it is smart to have a kit prepared just in case. Personally, when I go on my first date with someone, I have a sleepover kit stashed in the trunk of my car just in case. All the goodies that I list hear can easily fit into a backpack or small tennis bag. This can be easily stored in the trunk of your car, and hopefully find a permanent home in her closet or under her bed at some later date. From the examples that I suggest below, you should be able to cobble up a suitable kit for yourself and have it ready for your next big date!

Foot Wear

If your girl lives in an apartment, she likely has little control of the temperature. If the building is old, then chances are that the floors are freezing. Pick up some cheapo slippers so you have something to slip on if you have to hit the john in the middle of the night. Nothing is worse than going back to bed with cold feet.

Protection

For your own protection, and hers, these little babies are essential. But make sure you get the right size. I cursed them for years before I realized that I was bigger around than average. The regular size were downright painful to wear. Variety in type is also a good idea.  There are a lot of fun shapes and sizes to play around with. If you cannot find them at your local drug store, then try a sex shop. Make a game of it and see which ones you both like best. Even the ones that are not short listed can be interesting to try out!

Sweatsuit

Along the same lines of thought as the footwear, you might want to also pack a warmup suit in your sleepover kit. Her landlord might control the temperature, and turn it waaay down at night to save money. In my mind, better too hot and remove something than too cold and freeze. Bring layers of clothes – it never hurts.

Toothbrush

This is a no brainer. If you are like me you abhor using someone else's toothbrush, and do not like using another brand of toothpaste either. Buy the travel size toothpaste tube to save room.

Candles

You just cannot beat the affect that candles have on a woman. Whether you use them over a meal, to watch TV, or in the bedroom, they are a great mood setter! 

When Harry Met Sally

This classic movie never fails to get any woman into the romantic mood. So keep this handy, dandy little gem around for the next time you are not in the mood to go out, the video stores are closed and there is nothing good on the 85 or so cable TV channels available to you. Plus, it bears multiple viewings and is still good.


All-Purpose Romantic Card With Gift Card Inside

This is one of the best get out of jail free ideas that you will ever come across Get a blank card in the romance section of a card rack; something with a nice picture that signifies a romantic situation. You tape a Victoria Secret gift card inside (or one from her favorite store). Now draw a big heart or something, and write in a romantic comment like, “On a day like today, I am always reminded how much I love you”. Make sure that the sentiment does not refer to any specific event. Then some fateful day will surely come when you have forgotten some important anniversary, or birthday or something. You go to your sleepover bag, pull out the card, and give it to her. Presto – your ass is no longer grass! Tell your friends.

Ear Plugs

Everyone snores sometimes, even hot chicks like the one you are dating. If you cannot sleep, just pull the plugs from your bag and put them on. Just make sure that you never use them when she is trying to talk to you!

Blind Fold For Sleeping

Nothing is worse than trying to sleep late when her room is catching the early morning sun. Use the sleep mask and count your blessings.

A Change Of Clothes

An emergency change of clothes is essential as well. I mean, after all, if you do not have spare clothes and something happens, you will have to dress in drag.

Sade CD

Sometimes musical tastes differ, and this is probably a good thing for the most part. However, when it comes time to put on something to listen to during sex, if her tastes run exclusively to Celine Dion, it can be difficult to stay the course. It does not matter what your taste in music, Sade will put both of you in the right groove.

Books

It is always good to have some reading material if she has to leave you alone for a while. It removes the urge to snoop through her things. At the same time, you will look like someone who is more well rounded than if you just watched TV all the time. Stay away from nudie books. Most women hate that. If you can stomach it, try bringing and reading the latest Nicholas Sparks book.


So, there you go. A great idea, easy to make, and invaluable.



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