BDSM is not for everyone. For the uninitiated, BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism. If that gives you an image of people slapping each other black and blue, you need to understand that BDSM is not meant to be that physically abusive. Basically, BDSM aficionados are people who pretend to hurt each other for the most part. If whips are used, they are designed not to cut your skin, and they specially designed not to cut you skin or raise severe welts.. People do not hit hard because the excitement is in the domination or submissive nature of the act, not in causing pain. Getting your butt slapped, or lightly whipped can actually stimulate a better Orgasm. On the other hand, the bondage side of the equation is quite real. There is something about trusting someone to let you go after that can be quite compelling sexually. Usually however it just means being lightly tied to a bed. Every sex show will always have several merchants who sell special beds, sheets or mattresses that are designed for bondage. The buzz is had by either dominating or being dominated. It is about absolute trust. Ideally, they will use your helplessness to bring you into a sexual frenzy that you have to experience to understand.
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